The Philippines is one of the easiest places in the world to meet, date and have sex with women. Don’t get me wrong, I never have much trouble scoring sex anywhere I go, even when I’m not paying for it, but the Philippines is among the best places in that regard.
Thanks a number of factors there are millions of Filipinas working in almost every country on earth. They can be easy to meet to but that’s not what this is about. I’ll do a post on them sometime in the future. Today I’m talking about finding and fucking pinay women in their homeland.
Unlike Thailand and a few other “developing countries” money isn’t such an important factor in the Philippines. Whether this is for cultural reasons or simply because most Filipinas can speak English I couldn’t tell you. You’d have to ask an anthropologist. Even though the Philippines is a relatively poor country you can find free casual sex as easy as you can in rich countries with liberal sexual attitudes like Japan and Hong Kong.
Of course this is a broad statement but it is based on my many experiences. It doesn’t mean that every Filipina woman is ready to fuck at the drop of a hat either. I don’t put any stock in the LBFM myth. I know there are plenty of women around who don’t put out easily and even some who won’t put out at all before they get married. It’s just that they are fewer and further between than they are in some other countries like Cambodia or Malaysia.
So how do you meet Filipinas? The easiest way is just to get on the ground and pound the pavement. I have spent a day in a city like Manila that didn’t give me the opportunity to pick up one (and usually several) women. The girls at the coffee shops, waitresses, staff at the bank, women walking around the mall. The possibilities are really endless and Filipinas in these kinds of everyday situations are generally welcoming and warm people who are happy to chat. Many times they even initiate a chat when I and most Western people wouldn’t. The most you might get at a Starbucks in New York is an empty “how are you?”. In the Philippines you might get questions about your day, your work, how you spent your holiday or more. This can seem intrusive if you’re a cold hearted lonely prick but it can also serve as a great opening to start a dialogue.
I don’t pick up a lot of women on the ground anymore. At least not in the US and Western Europe. But in countries like the Philippines it’s a major tactic in my bag of tricks. Next most popular is the internet which is good basically anywhere but especially in the Philippines.
There are countless websites where you can meet Filipino women including Pina Love, Filipino Cupid, Badoo, OK Cupid, Date in Asia, and more. Some can also be found on dating apps like Skout and Tinder although smart phones aren’t all that common in the Philippines even now. Desktops are internet cafes are still more common.
How to act depends on the guy and the girl. I’m usually open and upfront. If I think a girl is pretty I tell her that. If I’m visiting her city and looking for someone to hang out with I tell her that. Women on Badoo and Date In Asia seem more eager to meet up in the short term than women on OK Cupid but nothing is set in stone. The women on Pina Love and Filipino Cupid seem to be among the most serious and the least likely to play games for whatever reason. A few of these are free, some are better if you pay, and some cost money to use in any real way.
Sometimes if I’m looking for some fast and easy action and I get the vibe that a woman might be open to it I just suggest that she meet for some fun in exchange for a thousand pesos or so. This has a surprisingly high success rate of up to 1 in every 5 attempts if I chose the right demographic. On some sites like Date in Asia it can get you banned so it’s best to ask for another means of contact on the second or third message like Skype or email. Most are open to sharing it if they have any interest in you at all and some share this info openly on their profile pages.
Of course the more accepted model is to chat up a lady for a few hours or even a few days and then asking her to meet you for a date. You don’t need to get elaborate. Even most Filipinas with money are happy to meet at an average restaurant or a mall for a movie that is quite cheap (in comparison with what you’d pay in the US). It’s best to schedule these dates in the early evening and close to your room or hotel. That lets you avoid insane rush hour traffic and have an easy gateway back to your place.
The Philippines isn’t huge but it is spread out. Traffic is bad and public transportation is worse. It can take someone in Manila more than an hour to reach someone else also in Manila depending on the time and weather. Some women are reluctant to meet because of that (but this can be averted by offering to pay their taxi fare when they arrive). Some even come on first dates with large bags filled with toothbrushes and such in case they luck out and don’t have to go home the same day.
When you go on a date with a woman being honest, complimenting her frequently and showing affection can go a long way. If you play your cards right it’s easy enough to politely suggest you go back to your room after the food, movies, ice cream or whatever. I’ve had an incredible success rate with this. I’ve had an even higher success rate brings women I’ve met in clubs like ZZYZX back to my room but I don’t do that scene much anymore because the music, drinking and late hours wears me out so much that I barely have enough energy to get my screw on back in the bed.
I’ve sometimes had to wait for a second date and once I had to wait for a third. I was committed to those efforts though. After a few first dates that didn’t go anywhere or left me with someone not as attractive as the person pictured I simply cut ties and moved on.
Oddly enough cutting ties can be the most difficult thing to do. If a woman falls for you and joins you in bed it can be hard to get rid of her which is one reason I often go the paid route rather than the sometimes cheaper dating way. I don’t like breaking hearts and I really don’t like being stalked. Being up front and open is one way to get around this but it frankly isn’t as successful. Another method is saying you’re in a bad marriage back home, but this doesn’t always work. Paying for it is the easiest way to leave when you want, which is one reason it’s popular. As someone once said, “I don’t pay them for sex, I pay them to leave afterward.”
Obviously this post mainly describes dating in big cities like Manila and Cebu. But the same info can be applied to the provinces even if some modifications have to be made.
The biggest pitfalls to avoid are the love trap (unless you are really looking for a girlfriend or wife), starting to chat weeks or months ahead of your visit to the Philippines (the women on dating sites gets too many messages to remember for more than a few days without meeting in person), not narrowing down your search and talking to women who live on different islands, or ending up sponsoring someone. The latter is easily avoided by thinking with your brain instead of your penis but even the best of us sometimes have trouble doing that.